You have concluded that a change in your life is needed. You have a busy life, but you don't feel happy. In your head it is a chaos of thoughts, ranging from beautiful plans to gloomy prospects. Sometimes you know the reason, often not. In any case, continuing the same road does not seem a good idea.
In any case, not by waiting carefully. You will have to act yourself. The thought alone make you see this mountain. Your work’s no longer giving the energy, certain colleagues, family members, the pace of work. Our advice is just to start with facing the mountain. To get a good start, grab your pen and paper and take the time to answer the questions below honestly for yourself. Write down those answers and keep room for additions and comments.
It is important to know what properties and habits of yourself and/or others affect your functioning. What about yourself? What are certain character properties or habits? What are the ways to move forward? How has your career gone so far? How is the relational atmosphere? Have they always been free and conscious choices, or have you been behind others very often? Have you done something often because you thought others were expecting you. Or did you try to make a sneaky impression or be important? The answers to these questions should be a picture of yourself and your development. With that image you can get started with the change.
In this step you will re-qualify all the important choices from the past. Why did you make those choices in relationships, work, friends etc? What was the reason then and how do you think about it now? Would you do the same now or choose another way? Which of these insights will (or should you!) keep and what fewer good choices can you change? There are decisions, which are difficult to change. Take children, for example. Other decisions can be changed, but they have major consequences. Think of your home with a high mortgage, the education, the relationship, or the family. At this stage, you should ask yourself which of the things mentioned are of great influence. Thinking about the choices made also involves thinking about the way of change.
This question is also worth considering seriously. Also, when answering, take time to ask yourself how realistic it is what you have written down. Our tip is to do this a few days later and write to the previous answers. This creates a beautiful and especially realistic picture of your life and your purpose in the future. With this image you can start thinking and implementing a structure and a plan for the future.
Recognize yourself in this approach, but don't know how to get that process going. Then we offer you enough inspiration and touch points to get further. We provide the right structure and guidance within which you can get things right. Contact us today for a free consultation. Together we can decide whether the trip to Tenerife is the best result for you at the moment.
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